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Blogs That I Follow.
- http://navallanga.blogspot.com
- News Item That touched Me ....There was one article in this month's Reader's Digest about Kamalbhai Parmar who is running a fabricating unit and who runsa school,rather a tution school for the poor students in Ahmedabad.It takes a large heart to start something like this.I do wish I can do something like that too.Atleast be able to teach in such effort .
- Books That I am reading now.....I am reading "Under Orders" by Dick Francis.Just started.Seems to be about issues in racing sport.
- News Items That Touched Me Today----The bicyc;e scores over train and car in a survey conducted for two wheeler travel ina congested metro like New York as the fastest transport..
- Movies That I Liked.....I watched a Malayalam Movie called'Vastu Hara' in Kairali T.V.yesterday.The story touches about losers who migrate abandoning their personal properties during divison of countries and realtes to the creation of East Pakistan called East Bengal dividing Bengalis .Also running underneath the main issue is the personal loss of property which gets rejected by the Mother in the story who is offered the same back by her Husband's relatives.
- Books That Are My Favorites----Somerset Maughm's short stories,Arthur Conan Doyle's 'sherlock Holm mysteries',All of Shakespearian dramas,The Bronte sister's writings,Poems by Mathew Arnold and Tagore's 'gitanjali'.This list is not exahaustive.
To Perceive Means???
I have been asking myself this question since this morning.I simply understand by this word 'perceive',to be meaning understanding simply.Yes,no complicated understanding.We humans tend to perceive everything with a little bit of complications thrown in.I feel as we grow in perception the simple should become more simple.Instead of that the simple is tending to become more complicated.
We cannot for example give more meanings to an action say exhibiting indifference or arrogance.it is just that the other person does not exactly care for you,when he shows the arrogance or indifference.It is just that.Then why does it have to hurt?Because one expects more from that person.It is also because somewhere the equation is not exactly equal.So the expectation factor comes in.You expect your friend to understand you in a certain way,but she does not.So the inequality produces the friction and imbalance in the friendship,and LO!!! one more break occurs in your life.
This factor called 'expectation' does give that imbalance be it be a familial relationship or social relationship.So what is the solution?Do not expect and do not add this expectation factor to your perception and get heart broken.
Jayamala.
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