There was this arguement yesterday with my friend.When a relationship goes bad who has to be blamed and also why people try to blame one another?
I have three examples that I know.All of them had blamed one another.
In the first one the woman had observed the interest in a youth who happened to be her relation when she was visiting and sometimes staying in the youth's house.The youth was friendly too and used to speak about realtionship matters to her, visiting her home wherein she was alone, as she was working in that city.When the youth was inducing her and she fell and the youth woke up suddenly to the reality that she was her relation she went to pieces.Why when she was normal did he induce her and why when she was flaming did he put her out.It took her years to get over him.
I view this incindent as normal and the conclusion also as normal for when close relations are concerned this is the end.
In another incident the woman was approached by an office collegue.She was aware of his interest in her.Here too when she
found out that the man trying the same approach to another collegue she fell out with him and she broke down.It took this one also some time to get a proper perceptive on the happenings.
Here again I blame the woman as she should have been aware of the collegue's designs.
In the third incident the parties are only involved at the internet level.They do not know each other.So it was only a virtual interaction.Still the girl suffered.
My friend is of the opinion that in all the three cases there were mistakes by the men and women involved.Why knowingly fall for the man as in the second case and why take internet association seriousely?At least in the first case both realised eventhough the suffering did happen.
I feel that life does not run as we wish it.It does run through some crags.So the hurts and the heartburns.Life is full of tentative rsolutions of saying I wont err in future but anyway all do err.Some greviousely too.
Blogs That I Follow.
- http://navallanga.blogspot.com
- News Item That touched Me ....There was one article in this month's Reader's Digest about Kamalbhai Parmar who is running a fabricating unit and who runsa school,rather a tution school for the poor students in Ahmedabad.It takes a large heart to start something like this.I do wish I can do something like that too.Atleast be able to teach in such effort .
- Books That I am reading now.....I am reading "Under Orders" by Dick Francis.Just started.Seems to be about issues in racing sport.
- News Items That Touched Me Today----The bicyc;e scores over train and car in a survey conducted for two wheeler travel ina congested metro like New York as the fastest transport..
- Movies That I Liked.....I watched a Malayalam Movie called'Vastu Hara' in Kairali T.V.yesterday.The story touches about losers who migrate abandoning their personal properties during divison of countries and realtes to the creation of East Pakistan called East Bengal dividing Bengalis .Also running underneath the main issue is the personal loss of property which gets rejected by the Mother in the story who is offered the same back by her Husband's relatives.
- Books That Are My Favorites----Somerset Maughm's short stories,Arthur Conan Doyle's 'sherlock Holm mysteries',All of Shakespearian dramas,The Bronte sister's writings,Poems by Mathew Arnold and Tagore's 'gitanjali'.This list is not exahaustive.
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