There was no net for three days ,as one day it rained heavily here,and then the service provider had moved on subsequent days.The net came yesterday at 11.30 p.m. and as I was sleepy I did not write here.
Iam likely to travel this coming week and also the second week of May.So again some gaps in writing will be there.After that, by the end of June I might altogether will be in another country if the visa is granted for six months.So again, though I might be able to log in to a computer and write, some days might pass before Iam comfortable enough to use the facilities at the place of visit.
This June visit does make me say goodbyes to some friends of mine here.Friends who have been giving me good times and friends who have stopped being too close and friends with whom I have stopped relating.
One friendship does give some difficulty in parting as the friendship was sincere and it has undergone some change of hues recently due to both of us deciding to let it be so.I gave the impending June journey to this friend first, and natuarally some upset had been noticed by me.
By writing here, Iam actually answering some queries on change of relationship due to time and just because one moves away.Change is the norm of the world and in all the relationship in the world.If we perceive a ceratian relationship then it is there.If we perceive a difference in this relationship ,most times it means that one or the other had wanted movement away and had acted to create this change.Either way the change is in one's self only.
What about the pain of parting?Again the pain is because one wanted to go back in a relationship where the change has occured.Also perhaps one has cared ,so created this pain.All relationships will change, and even if one perceives the change and want to go back to previous position, the movement has occured and so the change is inevitable.Once you realise this aspect of life there is no more pain, and a goodbye is just a movement either in thought or in space.
Jayamala.
Blogs That I Follow.
- http://navallanga.blogspot.com
- News Item That touched Me ....There was one article in this month's Reader's Digest about Kamalbhai Parmar who is running a fabricating unit and who runsa school,rather a tution school for the poor students in Ahmedabad.It takes a large heart to start something like this.I do wish I can do something like that too.Atleast be able to teach in such effort .
- Books That I am reading now.....I am reading "Under Orders" by Dick Francis.Just started.Seems to be about issues in racing sport.
- News Items That Touched Me Today----The bicyc;e scores over train and car in a survey conducted for two wheeler travel ina congested metro like New York as the fastest transport..
- Movies That I Liked.....I watched a Malayalam Movie called'Vastu Hara' in Kairali T.V.yesterday.The story touches about losers who migrate abandoning their personal properties during divison of countries and realtes to the creation of East Pakistan called East Bengal dividing Bengalis .Also running underneath the main issue is the personal loss of property which gets rejected by the Mother in the story who is offered the same back by her Husband's relatives.
- Books That Are My Favorites----Somerset Maughm's short stories,Arthur Conan Doyle's 'sherlock Holm mysteries',All of Shakespearian dramas,The Bronte sister's writings,Poems by Mathew Arnold and Tagore's 'gitanjali'.This list is not exahaustive.
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