I have been reading many articles on compatability.The minute Reader's Digest comes I used to look for either articles on health or articles on compatability.Most of the articles are really life management, time management, emotional management and even diet management.
So compatability is achieved when one decides to do away with certain traits of the person having compatability problems and new habits and better way of looking at the problem area are pointed out to him/her.Usually the person is on his/her way to cure when awareness that the problem is there and decides to change.So a person who is deemed compatabile is one who takes the situational changes in life ina better and smarter way.
A person is not compatabile when she/he is unable to take the situation and stays there brooding and thinking that the problem lies with others around him/her.So one measure of compatability is that one knows one's own limitations and also identifies that the problem is with one's self.This way of looking at situations in life is best when instead of searching elsewhere ,one searches only one's inner nature and rectifies the deflections ,and either lives better or at least accepts the situation.So even when a situation is not completely resolved ,even then the very fact that one knows that the situation is as it will be or is not liable to change for the present makes one a better compatable person.
Also one has to somehow find other sustaining means like a general interest elsewhere like reading, walking, singing ,even talking or writing as Iam dong just now sees one through difficult paces.Ultimately one does learn to exist with the least friction with one's own self.That is I think the one trait of a compatable person.
Blogs That I Follow.
- http://navallanga.blogspot.com
- News Item That touched Me ....There was one article in this month's Reader's Digest about Kamalbhai Parmar who is running a fabricating unit and who runsa school,rather a tution school for the poor students in Ahmedabad.It takes a large heart to start something like this.I do wish I can do something like that too.Atleast be able to teach in such effort .
- Books That I am reading now.....I am reading "Under Orders" by Dick Francis.Just started.Seems to be about issues in racing sport.
- News Items That Touched Me Today----The bicyc;e scores over train and car in a survey conducted for two wheeler travel ina congested metro like New York as the fastest transport..
- Movies That I Liked.....I watched a Malayalam Movie called'Vastu Hara' in Kairali T.V.yesterday.The story touches about losers who migrate abandoning their personal properties during divison of countries and realtes to the creation of East Pakistan called East Bengal dividing Bengalis .Also running underneath the main issue is the personal loss of property which gets rejected by the Mother in the story who is offered the same back by her Husband's relatives.
- Books That Are My Favorites----Somerset Maughm's short stories,Arthur Conan Doyle's 'sherlock Holm mysteries',All of Shakespearian dramas,The Bronte sister's writings,Poems by Mathew Arnold and Tagore's 'gitanjali'.This list is not exahaustive.
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